Tuesday 13 December 2016

Tamil mother, Sikh father - Long hair son becomes classical dancer

Sangeeth sing and his family are living in Delhi as the name indicate he is a sing his fathers name was preetham sing but he is no more he died when he is only 8 his mother seetha is working in a government office she is a Tamil women they are love married when they are studying in same collage Sangeeth is only child in house he is young cute whitish short and slim figure with a big turban on head he lived with his mother grand mother and aunty ,his moms sister is a divosie and she is working in a textiles as an accountant her name is swetha she is young and cute like his mom his grand mother is still cute at the age of 47 she wear beautiful sarees and ornaments and very good in classical music they three lived in a traditional way of Tamils wake up early bath early put tulsi leaf on hairs. wear beautiful sarees when they go out or salvar in day time and nighty in night they three have long beautiful hair too After his fathers death his mom have decided that he should live like a sing as his father was  9/22/09  jaya 
Sangeeth was not good in studies but good in singing and dancing his aunt taught him some steps of classical dance his mother too know some but they tell your face will not show any sought of expressions. though he is living with 3 women's he is very shy in nature and do not talk too much also he don't have company with other boys the only company of him is sneha another Tamil family living in same town she always talk so much about all thing and always play on him she always laughed at him saying boy with big head. His turban is very big that is why….
But when he completes the pedigree education he wants to join b- Ed collage. he got admission in a collage at panipat he stay there and studied when he went to study outside he is completely changed he will not sit in his house he comes very late in night when he is in house and speak little to his relatives they always complain him about his nature and also force him to sit in his house. while he go out he smokes a lot and his mom and aunty always advise him about this bad this habit .
One day when he is coming to delhi from panipat he arrived there in late knight but that day was a strike in delhi so his mom told him that stay in snehas house which is near to railway station.he reached there at 11 30 night on next day sneha wake up early and went to Sangeeths room with a cup of tea she was shocked, he is sleeping in a pyjama only. his turban was tied out and his hair was loose over his back it was below his hips and nice silky and beautiful like a lady when he open his eyes he jumped and tie his hair but she said no she want to see his hair ones more and she called her mom she was also shocked and said it so nice and if sneha have this much hair she should combed it daily and wear beautiful flowers on it he said it is common for sings and I also do my hair secretly I never show my hair to my mom or any one yet ,they never asked me till now to show my hair she said your mom granny and aunt have beautiful hair so this is hereditary  9/22/09  jaya 
When he went home 3 women's are waiting with a smile and asked him to show his hair and said that sneha told them about in phone he don't agreed first but at last he show it seeing this his aunty put a hair clip on his hair and said see mom his hair is longer than we three while they talk grandma took his jasmine flower from her hair and fix it on his hair and said boy if u are a girl I will definitely comp your hair daily and fix jasmine flowers on it . mom asked him that if she give a saree and blouse will he wear ,aunty also told that he look so cute in a saree but he does not agree and escaped from there
In that year he got dismissed from collage for entering collage by drinking liquor but he did not said this in his house and stay in hostel one day his mom got letter from collage and they went there become so angry with him the management said that only way is pay a good amount of fees and a punishment transfer to any where at last I heard that all seats were filled in all collages so I got a special massage from them that there is a vacancy in a women's collage in Delhi there special rule that every women's collage can admit one male student I am in a confusions but mom and aunty was compelling me and they forcefully joined there with out my permission and said that if you want to study you can join there this is a small punishment On the first day when I go to collage there is some senior girls they are the most dangerous they ragged all girls come around me and told me to tied out long hair turban. All are wondered when they saw my long hair. It was long below my hips some ladies come to me and hold my hand in back and 2 ladies come forward and braid my long hair then they fix a bunch of jasmine flowers in it and said this is the way for you to come to collage principal hear this warn that girls but he continued his bad habbits and behave very badly to his family members  9/22/09  jaya 
After some days it was study leave so he go every time outside and do not study any thing one day he become sick and coughing badly seeing this his mom went with him to doctor, the lady doctor asked did u smoke he hesitatingly said yes on that day sneha said to mom that he smokes very badly that day his mom did not allow him to go out on next day he went secretly out side and smoke again on his come back his mom said you should sit in house and take rest for a month so your disease may go and your smoking habit may become less more over you can study your lessons in study leave he said no mom it is so boring to sit between three ladies their murmurings about others, saree styles, tele serials …..I am a boy I am not interested in their topics more over I hate these ladies groups and said I am not going to change my habits and I will go out when ever I like ,try your level best to stop me going out
When he came back 3 women's are discussing about his smoking they told him not to smoke but he did not hear it on that day night he have some breathing problem 3 women's in the house where so worried and called doctor she said them that he have some infection in lungs and want to take rest and do not smoke for a month and she gave a address of de addiction centre for stimulants they gave a pack of medicine to them and told patient should take rest for a month  9/22/09  jaya 
On that night the three ladies discus very seriously about his habbit and misbehaving aunty said that he should get some punishment for insulting ladies. mom also agree but main problem is how to tie him in house for a month minimum .grandma said I have an idea do it and she said to her daughters.when they call him he is in bath room mom said . mom said there is surprise after bath when he came back his mom said give me your dirty dress he handed it and now standing in a towel then aunty came in and give him a knighty 
He said it is a nighty?
Mom; yes it is a nighty Wear this 
He; No way
Mom; Why
He; I want my dress
Mom; this is your dress
He; No I don't like it
Mom; Ok then I will give you some thing else
And she called aunty
She bought a salwar and shall
Aunty; did u like it
He; No
Aunty; Oh no so only option is you should wear saree and blouse 
He; Why
Aunty; You said try your level best to stop me going out and u badly said about our dresses and styles so u should get a small punishment for that you should know the feeling of wearing ladies dress and if u like it fully we four can use same wardrobe and our expanse can brought down 
Mom; you must wear these dresses and if you want to go out then you can go out in this dress
He; Please mom 
Aunty; No boy 
Mom; None of your dress is going to get for a month
Aunty; You can wear any of these dresses or stay there only in a towel
Then they left room .after some times grand mother came in and sat with him
Boy you are the only expectation of our 3 but you don't have any attachment to us and now a days you are walking in a bad ways so we want to control it you know when your father died your mom was mentally upset for 2 or 3 years same case in your aunt when she become divorced I know how much they love you and we three ladies need a man to support us  9/22/09  jaya 
Hearing this he cried and hugs his grandma and asked what I want to do.
She smilingly show all type of dresses said wear this
He tearfully said I love you grandma and I love you 3 too and obey what ever you want and any dress you said
Hearing this grandma hug me and said I like you my son I really dreamed about a grand daughter but god would not give me one so you should allow me to see a daughter in you and take a blue cotton saree blouse bra petticoat panty and said this is dress you want to wear
He was surprised but he allowed
She handed him the matching blouse. When she pulled it up and clasped the hooks at the front, it fitted him so perfectly that no one would have believed that it was not stitched for him. It covered shapely breasts, standing out proudly she said to me that this is his aunt's .granny said when we have planed this all of us said that her blouse should fit for me now wear this petticoat She was holding a light blue colored petticoat made out of linen. Her petticoat covered his lover pats and legs. Then she picked up the six-meter long sari and laughed at started tying it around me. Granny is an expert on wearing saree he stand there calmly she said I will show how my grandson look beautiful in saree
Then she gave her long chain and 6 bangles 3 each in one hand her angle belt for him to wear ,and when she fixed these items on him and she gave her ear jumka to him and fixed on his ears she then applied make up on his face lined his eyes bindi light lipstick on him and said boy I have one wish too 
He asked what 
She said take your turban 
He do what she said and she braid his long beautiful hair below his hips she then fixed the jasmine flowers which is in her hair
When he looked to mirror he was stunned and his grandma too…. she cried with joy and surprise and said to there daughters stay in front of door a nice seen for you and ................ 
when door opened both of them sat on sofa with surprise both of them came near me and said from today you are our daughter not son mom said that he looks more beautiful if he have a nose stud 
Grandma said we can put hole on his nose tomorrow itself
Aunty said if he is our daughter there is so many boys roam near our house and a plenty of love letters must be there on our letter box hearing this all of us laughed 
Grandma said after you recover from desease you should continue your classical dance class
On next day aunty brought 3 knighies 3 petticoat and 4 brassieres 
Mom brought one golden chain some bangles ear jumka sticker nose stud payals 
On that study leave every day he wear sarees or salwars in day time and nighty in night .he learn very much his subjects and passed the exams in flying colors his smoking hobby is gone 
After that he spends all time in house practice dance moments with his aunty now his feminity is increased. Then aunt, mom and granny sent him Hyderabad for degree course in kuchipudi dance. Now he is the leading female role player in kuchipudi dramas in south India. he can not do male roles because of his nice sweet long hair which is below his hips.
He helps them in cooking and cleaning and washing and likes to wear nighty all the time when he is ni house with out his turban. And we four become good company grandma every day comb his hairs and arrange jasmine flowers on it and our house become like a ladies hostel

Wednesday 19 October 2016

Hair Oiling of a girl from Kerala - My friend Kavya Nair

I daily oils my hair with coconut oil. As an Keralite , we go to bath after applying oil to hair and we don't wash off the oil from the hair completely.

This gives the advantage of non sticky hair. Also I apply oil to scalp in large quantity than the remaining sides of the hair. Applying to scalp spreads to each corner. I dont let go one day without oiling my hair. Sometimes on Sunday I fully wash my hair without remaining oil contents, but the other day I applies in large quantity and that too I don't use shampoo or soap but just pour warm water to avoid from removing oil contents from my hair.

Again the next day till Sunday I only applies to scalp and rubs gently. We should keep in mind that if don't want to oil in each corner of the scalp then just oil heavily to the upper part of the heads scalp, this will spread the oil contents to each and every corner.

I have a very long hair as most of the keralites have and oiling the hair daily is in the Malayalam tradition and I follow to great extent.This has resulted to long thick hair. Please try the above and post your comments



Tuesday 18 October 2016

Painful lice combing schedule for a man

I am a 28 years old male living in vikhroli mumbai. I live alone here since last 4 years and my family is in my native.i keep long hairs upto my waist and normally tie it in a pony or a plait or some time in a bun. 

Since last 1 month i have been suffering with lice infection in my hair. As a stay alone i have no one to take care of it . So i discussed this with my neighbour's daughter who is very close to me. She initially laughed at me, but then told me she will come next day afternoon. I wondered what she was going to do. Next day she came in the afternoon and showed me the lice comb she had bought for me. She asked me to bring coconut oil bottle and sit facing my back to her. 

She Opened my plait and started searching for nits in hair by moving her fingers in my hair. After some time she oiled my hair heavily and started combing my hairs with lice come. She found many and handed over to me for killing. This continued for about 1 hour until no more lice were found in lice comb. Then she tied my hair in bun and asked me to clean my clothes and keep the comb. 

She told she will repeat this after 2 or 3 days so as to get rid of lice. I thanked her. I immediately felt a huge relief by itching scalp. after another 2 sessions i got much relief. Atlast i thought i was free from lice. 

But again yesterday night i felt lot of itching and so went to her home to ask for lice combing. Her mother (my neighbouring aunt) opened the door and told me she had gone to some relatives place for 2 days. She also told me that her daughter had discussed my lice issue to her and she can do tomorrow morning for me if i don't mind. I smiled and she asked me to bring my lice comb and come to her house. 

Today even being sunday i woke early and had bath took the lice comb and went to her place,. She also followed the same routine as her daughter did but oiled my hair more heavily. Just finished 2 hour of lice combing from her. She had asked me not to wash my hair and come in afternoon when she and her 2 maids will make me sit in our common balcony or terrace and do harsh and painful lice combing. Also asked me to buy 3 lice comb and bottle of castor oil which she will mix with coconut oil and apply in my hair before lice combing, just purchased lice combs and castor oil. 

Monday 10 October 2016

Story of Rohit who has grown hair upto knees and sports a braid

My Long Hair Story! Hi Friends! My name is Rohit and I have very long hair.

18th Jan 2009 I started growing my hair because of my mom and sister. After some months, my hair reach until my shoulder. My schoolteacher say that your hair have grown long so you have to put two ponytails or wear a white hairband like girls. 

Next day I wear white hairband I some time wear 2 ponytail also. Many teachers thought that I am a girl and they call me Miss. 

13th Jun 2010 my hair was until waist length teacher say stop putting hair band or two ponytail. Now onwards you will wear two braid (plait) ponytial.my class girl says he will look like a girl mam.teacher say so what he have long hair like you only.my sister braid my hair. 

She does my hair so girly that I would look like a girl. When I come to school next day my class girl, say Wow! He is looking so beautiful .teacher say good you have done your hair. 

Then after 2 years 28 September 2013 my was until my hip (butt).I was going to school by wearing two braid ponytail only. On that day, my mom bought a pink girl dress and my mom and sister force me to wear it. after wearing sister arrange my hair as a girl and mom put makeup on me.after that says you look so beautiful as a girl I think I have two daughters. 

On march 5 2013 my hair was knee length hair as you see in my profile pic that’s me only that photo was taken by seal my best friend mansion in my 3rd story. I

N ADDITION, today April 5 2013 my hair is tied up in a one Indian braid I was playing with my hair and writing this experience. I LOVE MY LONG HAIR!


Tuesday 4 October 2016

Experience 02) Observing a women while oiling her hair

This is one of my another experience which I got when I was at restaurant and bar which was most glass.

I found on the opposite side of the road a small house where I saw a lady which having nice long upto her ass and she comes out for dressing her hair. She opened her braid and oiled it nicely and made a bun for the oil to spread nicely in the hair.

Then after some time she started to comb her hair (after combing her bun). As she was combing her hair it was looking nice and her hair was very thick as she combed the oily hair was looking nice and she combing tightly.

Her full back without part was looking was great. Then draped her on one side and combed it and then made a small ball and combed the bottom of her hair.

Then suddenly her kid cam out and started playing on the road. She ran behind him and her hair was dancing and looking nice.

Then she draped on the other side and combed it nicely. She applied some in the bottom half of her hair some what and again combed with a centre apart. Then she pulled her back and made a nice tightly combed braid. After that rolled it into a nice bun.


Experience 01) Observing a women while oiling her hair

This is one of my experiences which I got when I was at my friend’s place on a weekend. He wanted to go out and I stayed at his place for sometime.

To my surprise I found at a distance, couple of buildings away, one lady in her mid 40’s came out in gallery and opened her half oiled hair which were in a bun. She gently oiled her hair for sometime with Parachute coconut oil, which I could make out from blue color bottle.

Her hair were just below shoulders and was dense black. After oiling her for some time she started combing her with her black comb. All this I was watching from my friends house and she was not aware of it.

As she was combing she oiled her hair. It was like she was dipping her hair in oil. Then suddenly she went inside and bought a napkin for cleaning her comb as her hair was loaded with oil. She comb her hair full back, then went slow again cleaned the comb.

Then came the best part she made a centre part with the comb and with her beautiful hands with that centre part she made two portions exact similar and bought her in front. Mind you she was looking terrific. She then started talking to some one and as the wind kissed her hair it was mildly waving her combed and dense hair. Made it look very amazing.

Then again she started combing her hair removed all the tangles and then did some hand combing and felt her hair. By now her hair was shining and look gorgeous.

Then pulled her hair back and made a full back comb and then combed her hair for a while and made a nice single tightly combed braid looking truly amazing.



Indian long hair man writes to a long hair Chinese girl Song Yanhua

Dear Song Yanhua,

Thanks for responding to my e-mail. I am eager to see your pictures in bun soon. Once you post it, please inform us.


Well about hair tradition in India, India is a country with rich culture and heritage. In fact, Indian civilization is one of the oldest civilization like China, Egypt and Babylon. In our great epics, like Ramayana, Mahabharata find elaborate notes on woman's hairdressings, hair ornaments, hairstyles and hair growing medicines.

All the female characters have thick, long beautiful hair, which they either braid or wear in bun on the top of their head like crown or in bun. They used to decorate it with flowers and ornaments.

If you surf it on net you will get lots of stuff on this subject.

In India men also used to keep long hair. This was in respect to one Indian god "Shiva". He has very long matted hair. He wears his hair in a large coiled bun on the top of his head. If you search "SHIVA+India" in Google you'll see several images.

Our god’s have long hair wore in this fashion. It resembles "Buddha" which is prayed in your country too.

So do the Indian men, they used to wear their long hair in the same style i.e. hair coiled in bun on the top of the head and some still wear hair like that. I am one of them. I wear a topknot.

Well, I have read few articles on yoga and meditation. The tradition in men goes like this about this hairstyle, In India, our culture is based on sacrifice and highest attainment is "SALVATION". Salvation can be achieved through meditation (chanting god's name) Bun (Topknot) on the head serves like an antenna and helps to concentrate in meditation. If you see Buddha statues, you will agree with me.

However, men look appealing with flowing long hair, like our Indian god statues.

Now a day, no Indian man sports long hair except few passionate men, monks and Sikh community. Hair are short and neatly cut. 

Sikh community: In this community, cutting hair is a sin. Sikh men and women do not cut their hair for the lifetime. This community is all over the world. Sikh men can be identified by their turbans and long beard. Sikh are all over the world. This community is from the state of Punjab in India. It's a warrior community. They keep hair and wear it like monk as they feel that it is confluence of a monk and warrior. 

I have seen Sikh children with long hair like you, Song. They all the time wear it in a very tight bun on the top of their head. It resembles a monk/ Shiva /Buddha image. (Can you imagine not cutting hair for the lifetime; see their commitment towards the religion) 

Some of my Sikh friends have hair reaching their knees and they spend around half an hour a day for braiding it, Bunning it, wearing turban. They even do not cut facial hair(do not shave for lifetime) so they have to neatly keep their beards. 

Mothers must be having tough time combing long hair of their children then braiding it then bunning it EVERY DAY !!!!!! Sikh females wear their hair in braids or bun but not like men (On the top of their head) but like normal woman. But since they do not cut for the lifetime, their hair are very long. Some woman wear it like Sikh men in bun on the top of the head. (Very few) These people are just like us in professional life, schools & colleges except turban on their head. Long hair is a subject of pride for Sikh men and woman. Interesting indeed.

Regarding Indian woman, in cities like Mumbai (Bombay), Delhi most of the woman are working so they have short hair which they can manage very fast. In big cities, we have modern salons, where you can get any hair cut under the sun.In any colour. Still some woman keep long hair. 

In fact I strongly feel woman look most beautiful in long hair. 

In India applying hair oil regular practise Normally all woman apply oil while combing. It helps them to remove hair tangles easily. Woman normally use coconut oil or mustard oil for the same. But in Indian villages and small towns you will find most of the women sporting long hair oiled and neatly combed into a single braid or a large bun on the back of the head. If I am not exaggerating, Long hair oiled and combed neatly into a braid or a tight bun could be National hair style of India. 

Hair oil keeps hair in proper shape so in most of the schools in India,applying oil to hair is compulsory for girls and boys and their hair have to be neatly combed into braid(for girls) and short hair for boys. It is a part of discipline. Traditionally mother combs daughters hair like your mother. Grown up girl does it on her own. 

Few men also aspire to grow hair but normally if they are into modelling/ rock group. But still in India if they see a guy like this with long hair or a ponytail or hair wore in bun, he is not considered as a part of mainstream he is considered to be a rebel. 

But all of our gods, goddesses are with long hair and still 80% woman in India sport long hair. 

Now I will tell you totally opposite story. In India we have richest temple in the world. It is called "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" it is situated in Southern India. Its a strong belief of Indians, that whatever you pray for, "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" fulfills it. Every day minimum 1,00,000 pilgrims visit this place. During festivals, it is up to 5,00,000 pilgrims a day. People vow to god. After fulfilment of their vow, they offer hair to god "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" MEN & WOMAN TONSH THEIR HEAD, THEY OFFER HAIR TO GOD. BELIEVE ME WOMAN OFFER THEIR LONG HAIR AND BECOME BALD; AFTER FULFILMENT OF THEIR WISH. 

IT'S AWFUL SEEING A BARBER WITH A BLADE/RAZOR SHAVING A WOMAN'S HEAD AND HER LONG HAIR FALLING OFF HER HEAD. EVERY DAY MANY WOMAN OFFER THEIR LONG FLOWING HAIR LIKE THAT. THAT'S AMAZING INDIA. WHERE YOU FIND VARIETY OF CULTURES AND TRADITIONS. 

I hope Song, you are not tired and bored after reading my long E-MAIL. Hope you enjoyed reading it. Do reply again. Warm wishes,



Sikh Girl - Hair care ritual - Oiling, combing, making bun

Hi, my name is Anita Kaur. I am a Sikh girl from India. I sport very long hair because I have not cut my hair since my birth. Now I am 24 years old and my hair touch my knees. I belong to Sikh religion in which both men & woman do not cut their hair throughout the lifetime. It’s very difficult but (definitely for men) but we are proud of it.

I always wear my hair in bun on top of my head. Not for the style but my religion recommends. I wash my hair twice a week and after drying, I apply lots of hair oil. I have thick hair and these heavy mass needs hair oil for neatly combing and removing tangles and managing properly.

Hair oil gives it shiny and wet look. It also conditions hair. Normally I wear bun on top of my head like a monk (good example could be hairstyle wore by “Buddha" or any Hindu God). I also wear a turban or scarf.

Sometimes I wear a single braid of well oiled hair. It looks like a Nagin (female naga - snake)

After applying oil and combing, I braid them in opposite direction i.e. my braid starts from my forehead. After braiding, I make a braided bun on top of my head, near forehead. I wrap a scarf around it.

Generally my mother helps me out. And I help my brother who also has hair reaching his thighs. We spend @20 minutes everyday in hair care as we are work. I work in a bank and my brother works in a software company.

Due to regular care my hair are healthy, shiny. I would certainly marry a Sikh guy with long hair as I am passionate about it and I would help him in maintaining long hair as per our religion

Happy hair growing and caring



I am Tamil but sport hair like Sikh boy

Hi! I am Priyamvad again posting about hair oiling and making hair bun.

Today I washed hair with shampoo and then wrapped in towel turban on top of head for 20 minutes. After 20 minutes hair were moist and requested my mother to comb my hair. 

Mother grabbed bottle of Parachute coconut hair oil and sat on a chair. She asked me to sit on the floor. She started applying oil on my head elaborately and later applied to hair and ends. She massaged for 5 to 7 minutes and spreaded oil evenly to all portion of hair.
Then she combed hair neatly.


I requested her to tie hair in bun on top of head as she like my hair worn like that.


She asked me to stand up and bow down. My hair were hanging on my face. She started combing starting from neck. After neatly combing, she grabbed hair and twisted them and made a hair bun on top of head closer to forehead.
Today she didn't make braided bun.


I was looking like a monk. Then I wrapped a cotton cloth around my head like a Sikh boy. Although I am Tamil, I looked Sikh. 

However, I don't have beard as I regularly shave so it was like a Sikh boy without beard.

Saturday 27 August 2016

Boy's wish to grow hair long

Before going to this story ...let me introduce myself , I’m Aman 16 yrs old school going boy . my mom is a teacher and my father is a business man . my mom always tease me ...like ,don’t shave your mustache you are looking like a girl ..I simply says it a new style and I vl go .people shave mustache but they will have beard . But I’m a small boy I can have only mustache at my age. why my mom say like this bcz I have small chest like girls before attaining puberty and my skin is so fair and my hair is also silky like Chinese boys .
One day he saw a man with some medium length long hair men looking trendy ..so aman also wants to be like that ...he went to his mom asked I would like to grow my hair little longer and his mother said you are a school going boy .you should not grow hair, teachers will scold me . I won’t accept .By looking at you other will get spoiled . I forgot that my my is also a teacher ..I didn’t take it as serious after some day my mom asked me cut my hair .I refused ,she scolded me very angrily. I left home and went to my aunty's home which s in next street . He explained everything to his aunty abt the hair style . My aunty also said the same thing ....I was sitting lonely. her daughter came ,she s also going girl but one yr senior .she said I heard what you said . it is a new trend ,ya I accept but every one should like that .then he said OK...and left Aunty’s home
Has he was returning to his home he met with an accident .his leg was injured and doctor asked him to take rest for 2—3 months .and adviced him not walk also ..otherwise you may not able to walk life long and left . Days passed by my mustache grows very very slowly .but my hair grows little faster .some how I don’t no my hair was below the neck .I was so surprised to see my hair .my mom also liked it. has she was with me the hospital for 2 months ..she didnt have taken proper food .so my aunty said to my mom to go home and take rest . I will send my daughter to look after him .she entered the room and she was also surprised by seeing my hair
Doctor said let him take bath . though he had little pain I help him to take bath . After taking bath ..he was tired and slept .his hair was still wet so tied a bun with towel so it will dry .After that she combed my hair tied a simple knot and was hanging freely.
My mom came and said you looking beautiful, I got shy. Docter said now he can walk . Then my mom said we can go temple for Aman’s recovery, myself and mom then my aunty and her daughter .every one was ready but I was not. So my om asked meera check wat Aman is doing .I went inside ,he was struggling with his hair .meera said you don’t no how to handle your hair but you want trendy hairstyle. Then she combed his hair put a high bun men’s hairstyle .
He came out his mom said ya its good meera on seeing Aman hair . outside heavy wind blowing. I hair was flying something .this time I don’t no wat to do..with my hair .suddenly my my mom took a pin from her hair and inserted into his hair. It was also not enough so meera took still more pins and clip ,inserted into his hair.he was not aware how he look but now he his comfortable with his hair .,now he realised it is very difficult to maintain long hair .he said to himself its OK mom and meera is there why to worry and We went temple and had Pooja. After that we came out and stepped into car ...but I forgot my slippers .I went back there i was searching for it .At thet time a lady ,jasmine garland seller asked to buy jasmine garland but she did not see my front
.after that I turned back .she said sorry sir again and again ..I laughed and said its .but requested him to buy garland to his mom and relatives .I don’t no how much to buy ..I bought a bunch of jasmine garlands but I didn’t find my slippers and went back to the car ...meera asked me wat is this ..I refused to say and said nothing and gave garlands .finally they reached home
A soon as they reached home Aman said bun is little heavy I will be in loose hair. Meera said you cannot always be in loose ...hair your hair will start to fall and you cannot style it. Somehow in few days his hair was little still more longer said meera ...so no loose hair . come here I will show how to maintain .she said I will make a double plait . he refused and said I don’t want ladies kind of hairstyle. meera and his mother said if u don’t you will feel for it latter ...so do wat meera says and finally he accepted it .meera double plaited his hair with oil too make it strong
. Meera forgot about jasmine flowers so meera took it from the car and gave to her mother and aman's mother ,asked meera also to keep some flowers . Still there is a bunch of flowers where 10 more women’s can have.
Aman's mother saw aman with shy face asked him keep remaining bunch ,because he only wanted to grow his longer which tempted his mom to look his son has daughter . Otherwise you must cut your hair . he finally accepted to keep it ..meera took a bunch of fresh garlands and some roses which was already there in the house and pinned it to aman hair in beautiful manner .At that time meera got some affection towards aman. She didn’t mind that he s younger than her. After completing it ...aman felt very bad and shy .
And he ran into the room and locked his room .he started to cry .after some time he stood up and he decided to cut his hair. Suddenly he saw some reflection over the mirror ..he stood in front of the mirror and saw himself ......this is the first time he is seeing his reflection over the mirror. He saw himself surprisingly .and believed that what his mom said was correct ....he is looking like a girl not like a man he wants to be. But he likes the way he looks .He was very happy inside ....but meera felt sorry for him. And he came outside the room meera was standing and said sorry ...he said nothing and smiled.
Meera also understood that he liked the way he looks.so started to chit chat. had fun and fun .mostly of time they spoke about the girls. Meera said tomorrow school. What are going to do and what you will when teacher asks about your hair. Aman said I have a plan I will take mom to school and ask her to say that he should not cut his hair till next year . because I prayed to god that 2yr hair will be given to tripathi temple .so in school also they accepted.
Now aman is going to school with high bun or covered with some clothes like Singh people. But in home every day he return from school meera ...will comb his hair and plait it. And she inserted some pins to hold hair in correct position. This time there was a big surprise ...his mother brought him a new dress .his birthday was on Sunday .....he opened the dress it salwar .he was shocked .he did not wanted to wear this dress . but his mother said now you are a girl ...you have long hair ,small chest like girls ,hairless body and fair skin. Now go and wear this ....you will look good .Meera helped him to wear the dress . he admired himself as girl itself on seeing the mirror. Still something s pending ....today is your birthday day ...you can have loose hair said meera . he was very happy .now everything was over. this time meera mother made some style of jasmine garland ...she said thus will suits you Ammu said meera mother . Meera said you are looking more beautiful than everyone.... Ammu said meera.
Next day in school there was selection going on for drama ...aman also gave his name ...his name was also selected . teacher informed to meera about the role he should act as a seetha....there is no suitable for this role said teacher ...then they said no girls have long hair ...aman have long hair than girls ...he will be correct for this role ....
After that meera said to his mother about the ...role . Aman was very eager to accept this role . he also liked to do tat role.so they went purchasing ..they bought him a beautiful saree ,padded bra, panties, and slippers. Meera asked his mom ....aunty can we buy aman two more dresses which he can wear at home ....and nighties to wear. And at last they purchase was over they stopped at some fashion store ...bought some clips ,pins , hair bands ,bangles, nearby there was beauty parlour ...they took ammu there ....shaped his eye brows and did some facial and removed extra hair over face..now they waxed his whole body ....it was more painful ....this pain will go away said his mom.now she asked beautician to pierce his ear ....he said no ..but his mother said you have too .then painfully he went to his home ....he starred his face at mirror and said himself no one will I’m a boy.he cried in joy .next day drama preparation was going on...his mom also helped him for preparation.. They removed his dress ....mom asked him to wear that padded bra and panties..then petticoat and she drapped him the saree ...now its beautician work ....it was the same lady ..she did light make up with eyelashes ,eyeliner and lipstick . Meera was painting his nails . now hair they added extra hair which was at butt.plaited into single one ...added some fragrance to hair ..this time also aunty bought some different garlands made of jasmine and roses ....kept from top to bottom ..now ammu is lookin a bride ....this a time to show your talent said aunty.
Finally everything was going good ,meera mother gifted ammu with diamond nose ring ....and asked him marry meera ....he said how she will marry me...this is not my request ...it s meera's request . His nose was also pierced .....they completed school ,college and meera is working ,And is staying housewife....they are living a happy life

Sunday 14 February 2016

Natural, healthy and Economical way to sleek hair for wet look hairstyles

Dear Visitor,

Firstly I thank you for visiting my blog and giving me an opportunity to share some learnings with you.

I am an Indian long hair man and I keep on experimenting with my hair to make them more long,healthy as I feel that it is a gift of god and I love them. Whenever I take care of hair, I feel that I am offering service to god.

Coming to topic.

Sleeking hair

I always keep my hair well oiled and tightly combed. Mostly they are sleek.

I shall share with you a method of sleeking hair.

Things you will need:-  
Hair oil - Coconut/ Sesame / Olive (Avoid castor, its sticky)
A Comb, A hair band, A polythene bag, A woollen beanie cap / Skull cap preferably woollen and most important time and PATIENCE

Steps:-
01) Warm hair oil 
02) Apply elaborate quantity of hair oil to your scalp and massage it. Massage is       good for relieving stress and it gives cooling effect. It is healthy practice.
03) Apply oil to hair and try to coat each strand of hair with oil
04) When you are satisfied with hair oiling and massage, you are done & you           may stop at this point. 
05) Wear a bun on top of your head of oiled hair. Remember don't comb hair it         is a bun of oiled hair, let it be messy
06) Make a tight bun and secure it with hair band. It is optional. If you can knot 
      it with hair it will be great. (I wear my hair bun like a Sikh man)
07) Wear polythene bag like a cap. There will be air entrapped, which you               remove slowly, taking care that bag doesn't puncture.
08) The polythene bag will stick to hair and forehead because of oil
09) Tuck all hair in polythene bag, especially on neck and above ear
10) Then wear a woollen cap over it
11) Keep for minimum 1 hour, for best results wear for longer duration as it is         good for health as oil massage will open scalp pores and polythene &                 woollen cap will increase temperature
12) The heat will develop moisture and it will be blended with oil applied to hair
13) Remove cap, polythene bag after (say) 2 to 3 hours
14) Firstly you will sense breeze on scalp as it is open to air
15) Open hair bun and let hair loose
16) Take camb of your choice and start combing
17) In this process, you will observe once stroke is complete some liquid on             comb tooth. This is moisture
18) Some matted hair, damaged hair will shed. Don't worry for that it is normal
19) While combing you will realise it is so effortless and hair will have a  
      beautiful sheen
20) Comb till you are satisfied 
21) Final result will be evenly oiled, neat hair; not a single strand displaced
22) You may sport a braid or a sleek bun or topknot. I normally wear a braid

Benefits -
Natural - No chemicals, choice of natural hair oils
Healthy - Involves head massage, heat opens pores and scalp breathes,      
              removes stress
Economical - Oil, Polythene bag and woollen cap readily available at home.

I hope my readers will try this method of sleeking hair and I assure satisfaction.

I will be encouraged if you give your feedback or leave comment.

All the best
Priyamvad


















  




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Tuesday 2 February 2016

Radha - Soulmate of Lord Krishna invoked in me. Spiritual Ecstasy because of long hair

I met Radha in me.

I just finished oiling my long hair. I combed them several times and finally wore them in a nice braid My braid is touching my waist. It looking shining, tight as not a single strand of hair is displaced. I love grooming my hair as they are divine gift.I have been growing them for last 5 and half years.

Well! I am not a girl narrating my hair care regime. But Priyamvad Thenappan a 25 year old man. In my introduction/ real story dated 06 October 2015 in the same blog, I expressed my background and my desire to grow long hair. Today I am going to narrate an amazing divine experience I am currently going through.

I took a vow to grow hair for 6 years and then donate hair at Tirupati temple. Still there are 6 months to complete 6 years. At work, I wear my hair in a topknot like a Sikh man and wrap a cloth around it or wear a turban. Normally at home my hair are in bun or a braid. I have long beard too.

I am a religious man. Since last few days, I have a feeling that I am Radha, consort of Lord Krishna. I feel that I am no longer a man but a female devotee of Lord Krishna. I felt like wearing woman dresses, Wearing ornaments, adorning my hair with flowers, wear a garland, sport a bindi and I visualized myself as beautiful Radha.

I had a spiritual high and I couldn't control myself from becoming Radha. When I was alone at home, I shaved my beard. I wore my sisters salwar kameez, middle parted hair and wore a nice braid. I applied sindoor in the hair partition. I wore my sister's earrings, put a ring in my nose, wore bangles and applied kohl. I got a feeling of ecstasy. I was looking like a complete woman. A devotee of Lord Krishna.

My mother and sister enquired about my clean shave. I managed to give some reason and escape. But the urge of "Shringar" was just uncontrollable. I searched on internet about similar experiences. It is called "Sakhi Bhava" or "Radhe Bhava".

It is believed that among all the ways for uniting with the Lord, the enactment of the Bhaona on Him like His Raas Leela, is the most crucial and viable medium. In this bhava people wear long hair like the women and consider themselves Dasis or Gopis of Lord Krishna.


They are of the belief that if somehow their search for the Lord becomes true and they get themselves spiritually uplifted like the Gopis of Brindaban, there is the possibility of their uniting with the Lord,

There are Gotipua dancers in Orissa who are boys devoted to Lord Jagannatha who are grown up like girls and they dance in temple becoming a woman dancers as boys are pure unlike female dancers because of their menstrual period, Monks of Majuli also grow hair as Gopikas of Lord Krishna but they don't put on any Shringar.

There is a sect called Sakhi-Bekhi in which men live like Radha or Gopika. They wear woman's dresses, grow hair, wear ornaments and adorn them like Radha and pacify the god.

So it was not abnormal. I gathered courage and explained this to my mother and sister. I requested them to beautify me like Radha and experience invoking her in me.

A day before becoming Radha, in my dream I felt that woman features are developed in my body. Bulge on my chest, voice is softened.

I took elaborate bath. I washed hair and wrapped them in towel for drying. I shaved again. My sister gave me a pair of her undergarments. petticoat, blouse and then both of them wore me a saree. I had spiritual ecstasy. I was just out of the world.

Mother dried my hair and applied hair oil and neatly combed them. I felt as if Lord Krishna is combing and braiding my hair.








I requested to make a braided bun. She also adorned by braided bun with festoon (Gajra) then she applied makeup and bindi, sindoor. I wore ornaments and garland and finally I was transformed into a complete woman. Radha, consort of Lord Krishna.

I remained in this attire for full day. I didn't speak to anyone but enjoying the immense spiritual ecstasy. It was out of the world experience.

In the evening, I felt like retiring to my original form of a man. I removed all the accessories, washed makeup and became a normal man.

I strongly feel that this experience is because of my long hair.

Long hair bear divine powers, extra sensory powers, super natural powers especially on men. This could be the reason most of the Hindu gods used to wear a topknot of long hair.

I thought I shall share my experience with you and share my spiritual ecstasy.

Please share if you have similar experience.

Om







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