Heavy hair oiling and superb top knot bun

Oiled long Cobra briad made by mother today

Hello friends, I am Priyamvad a long hair man from India. I have waist length hair.

Today is Ramadan Eid. Happy Eid to my Muslim friends and blog visitors. Today is public holiday. I didn't go to office today.

I woke up late. I decided to wash my hair today. My mother asked me to wash hair with Shikekai powder. She hates shampoos and conditions which contain harmful chemicals.

I washed hair with homemade shikekai powder and after elaborate bath, I rolled my hair in towel topknot to dry.

After drying my hair, my mom came with a bottle of Parachute coconut oil and asked me to sit on floor. She poured coconut oil on my scalp and started applying coconut oil to other portion of hair. After applying lots of oil, she started combing my hair with a wide tooth comb and removed tangles and dreadlock if any. Then she took a fine-tooth comb and again neatly brushed my hair backword.

My mom suggested to sport hair today in single braid since I don't have to go to office.

Then she made a nice tight braid of my hair.

My braid is just looking like a black cobra.

I love my long hair and I will continue to grow them.

I have a Sikh girlfriend who encourages me to grow hair like Sikh men.

I am growing hair because my spiritual master asked me to take vow not to cut hair and I have been growing since last 7 years.

Regular hair oiling by my mother and sister made my hair strong, shiny and long. Thanks

A post Every Sikh Boy & Sikh Mother should see and practice

Greetings!!!

Although I am a Tamil boy, I respect Sikhism.
I am posting step by step guide of making topknot (Juda) of a long hair Sikh boy by his mother.
I also have similar hair and my mother helps me to sport hair in same fashion.
Please share your comments and requesting you to add similar pictures in my blog.

Priyamvad 1

Step 1
Sikh boy with wonderful long hair. He has washed his hair today and dried them. Hence they look frizzy. His mother is holding a bowl containing lots of hair oil (Sesame oil) and she has started applying it on his scalp.

Priyamvad 2

Step 2
Mother is also a devout Sikh woman. She is sporting hair in a topknot and wearing a keski.
She continue to apply hair oil on long hair of her son. What a proud mother.

Priyamvad 3

Step 3
Mother has applied lots of hair oil on scalp and roots of hair and now she is applying on the strands.
Its an amazing experience. Son must be enjoying it.

Priyamvad 4

Step 4
Oiling is done. Just see well oiled long hair of son. He is combing it neatly; starting from back of his head. He is removing matted hair and he will preserve them and one day he will drown it in holy river.
Its amazing to see well oiled long, straight hair of a Sikh Boy. A true Sikh.

Priyamvad 5

Step 5
Now mother is all set to tie son's hair in a topknot (Juda). She has combed hair once again and see difference between first photo frizzy hair versus well oiled slick hair combed forward.
Son has bowed in front of mother which is mark of respect to mother and divine Kesh (Hair)

Priyamvad 6

Step 6
Sikh mother has started braiding son's long hair. Braiding will keep his hair secured and manageable.
Since son has long hair, his brais will be like a long thick rope.

Priyamvad 7

Step 7
Mother is almost done with braiding. Last few inches of hair length remaining.
Look at well oiled neat long hair braid. Guruji has really blesses this Sikh boy.

Priyamvad 8

 Step 8
Braiding is completed. Mother is coiling son's braid on his head and she will make a knot of his long braid and create a topknot (Juda)/ She will secure it with string. Finally son will sport a Patka and all set for daily chorus.

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Top knot of my heavily oiled hair

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Tight oiled braids for concentration in studies - Meera's Story

My name is Seema

So I am married for almost 2 years now and live with my husband In laws and Sister in law.
She is in class 8th. Her name is meera.

When I first got married I observed that she has beautiful hair. However she just din oil them regularly.
My mil is also not strict about it as meera just did not listen.
She used to oil her hair on weekends and throughout he week it was regular light oiling or sometimes no oil at all. Also in her school for high school kids there no compulsory braiding.

She is good at her studies but I noticed how she plays with her hair 100times while studying.

I believe that a school girl or any student should be well disciplined and especially have oiled and neat hair.

She loved fashion and I dnt think this is her age to do so especially at the time of studying.

I spoke to my MIL about this and she agreed with me and asked me to take the responsibility.

Initially meera din agree with me And back answered so I had to be very strict with her. I once or twice pulled her ears also. She eventually realized I am very strict and she has to listen to me.

So now I oil her hair regularly and heavily. But never till it drips. I think even driping oil can be irritating and messy. I just make sure all her hair is well oiled. I then just check for lice as she is a school going girl and may catch it in class. However m glad she has not faced lice problem so far.
Then I Comb the hair well and then I make two parts of her hair with sometimes centre and sometimes side partition. Then I make 2 tight braids of her hair and i also use a ribbon to tie them up and make a bow. I don't like the braid to be hanging and she sit and plays with them whole day. As she has long hair I have to fold them up.

And I totally agree with all the moms who oil their kids hair everyday with two folded braids.

I plan to continue doing this to Meera till she finishes her education.

Also I let her wash her hair on weekends and dnt apply oil on Sunday. It's her holiday and she can do whatever hairstyle she likes. But on Monday again she had to compulsory go back to properly oiled hair and two braids.

This is the routine I follow with her.
Everyday I wake her up for college a little early Coz we spend good time in taking care Of her hair. and she takes bath and does her daily morning jobs like cleaning her bed,packing bags and then we eat breakfast.

After that I make her sit on a low stool and I sit on sofa or bed.
I use parachute coconut oil for her.
I use a good amount of oil and massage it and comb her hair properly. I then check for live but luckily she doesn't have that problem.
Then I ensure all her hair is properly oiled and then I make two partitions of her hair. Then I make a tight braid in in side near her ear and braid it till the end and then use a black ribbon to fold it tie it near her ear.
Then I similarly make another braid in the other side.

I am Tamil man - Why I sport hair like a Sikh?

Why I sport my hair in a bun on top of my head. I work in a office and this hairstyle is very convinient to hold long hair. I wrap cloth on my hair in cloth like Sikh boy. So it protects hair from dust and pollution.
When my hair length was upto shoulder, I used to sport them in a ponytail or a bun. But the bun size is very large and if I sport braid, it crosses my mid back. Long CHOTI.
Also, I respect Sikh Religion a lot! I wish I would have taken birth as a Sikh, so I could have grown hair since my childhood and entire family would be sporting long hair irrespective of gender and it would have been fun indeed to oil and comb each others hair.
It's a great respect to god the almighty. "Wahe Guru"
Probably my deep respect for Sikh relligion has bestowed upon me a Sikh friend.
I style like a woman. I do it while at home.
So my long hair gives me an opportunity to be like a man and a woman. I am indeed thankful to god the almighty for my long hair.

My Sikh friend - Japtej Kaur encourages me to be like a Sikh man

Last 2 months, I had abnormal hair growth and now my hair touch waist. Almost 5 centimetre growth in 2 months.
My Sikh friend Japtej Kaur is in regular touch and she encourages me to be like a Sikh man all the time.
But my mother wants me to be like a girl at least at home.
Today, being Sunday, I washed hair with shampoo and conditioned it.
Mother asked me to shave.
So, I got to know about her intentions. After drying hair, she grabbed Parachute coconut oil bottle and asked me to sit on floor. She poured handful of oil on my scalp and started patting on scalp. Then she evenly applied oil on my head and then on strands. Each hair strand was coated with coconut oil. Then she took a fine-tooth comb and brushed my hair backword. She was combing with gentle strokes. I stood and she was standing behind me neatly combing hair. Finally, she started making braid. She made a nice tight braid of hair. She asked me to wear my sister’s clothes. I sported Salwar Khamis and applied bindi on my forehead. Mother was very happy to see me in a woman's attire. Whole day, I lived like a girl.
In the evening, Japtej Kaur called me and asked me if we can meet. So, I had to change my attire. I sported my normal man's cloths and I thought I will sport hair like a Sikh man. So, I opened my braid and combed hair forward and made a tight bun of hair on top of my head and then sported a patka. My mother was unhappy. She doesn't like a Tamil family boy becoming Sikh.
I met Japtej Kaur in the garden. She had sported a braided bun of her beautiful hair, well oiled. I smelled her hair she had applied Dabur Amla hair oil.
I shared with her my dilemma of living dual personality. She laughed and said, it’s good that you have long hair like girls so that you can fulfil wish of both mother and girlfriend.

I want to sport hair like Sikh man but mother insists on briad

I am posting after 11 days. After my date with Japtej Kaur on 5th Feb 18; I went home and I was sad to find my mother upset with my attire of Sikh man.

She is suggesting me to sport hair bun at least like a woman at nape and not on top of head like a Sikh man.

I am trying to convince her that hair bun on top of head is a convenient hairdo for me because I go to office and I can cover hair under my patka

Also, my hairdo resembles Lord Shiva. I have taken vow not to cut hair for spiritual reasons.

So, let me be myself.

But mothers being mothers very kind at heart and too much attached, don't get convinced.

She kept on telling that I miss my daughter and when you sort hair like a woman, I don't miss her.

She removed patka from my head and opened topknot. My waist length hair cascaded straight from head on my face.

Mother observed that patka cloth has soaked all hair oil which she applied in the morning.

She wanted to oil my hair again and make a nice braid.

So, again she applied hair oil and brushed back my hair and neatly combed them. Then she tied hair in a nice braid (Choti)

She made 28 knots in braid. 27 knots are 28 lunar mansions(Nakshatras)as per Hindu mythology. 28 knots of a braid bring good luck.

After making braid, she was satisfied and she told me not to open braid anymore.

Next day morning, I sported a braided bun of hair and went to office. Mother is happy.

Boss is not happy. He suggested, you better sport patka like a Sikh man. I asked him to excuse me for the day.

Next day I carried patka cloth with me to office and sported patka in men's change room.

But when I go home and open my waist length hair and look in mirror, I get immense pleasure. It's an investment. With regular oiling and taking care, I got wonderful hair. It's god's gift. I can manage challenges associated to it.

A Sikh Girl curious about my long hair - Visit to Sikh family

I have 3 women in my life who appreciate my long hair and encourage me to grow them long and strong. They take care of my hair through hair oiling, head massage and helping me to sport in different styles. First are my elder sister Uma, my mother Laxmi and my cousin Savita.

Now, there is one more addition to this group of women, a young Sikh girl Japtej Kaur whom I met in bus and she was curious about my long hair. We decided to meet. Today being weekly off, we decided to meet at Japtej Kaur’ s home.

Since I met her, I stopped shaving and allowed facial hair to grow and I have been coiling my hair on top of my head like a Sikh boy in my home also.

My mother was upset with me as she wants me to be like her daughter at home wearing Uma's clothes, sporting hair like a woman and clean shaven.

Mother asked me, Why you are living like a Sikh man? I gave lame excuse.

Today morning, I again rolled my hair on top of head in a topknot and wrapped them in patka as sported by Sikh boys.

I went to Japtej Kaur’ s home. When I entered her house, I found two pretty girls with hair reaching their buttockss. I recognized Japtej Kaur the other one was her young brother with equally long hair. His name is Satvir Singh.

His mother entered in the drawing room. She was sporting her thick long hair in a nicely oiled braid.

Her father works in India Army and currently posted in Assam.

Japtej Kaur introduced me to her mother and younger brother. Her mother was so happy to see a Sikh boy but Japtej Kaur clarified that he is not a Sikh man but a Tamil boy with long hair.

They insisted me to remove my patka and show them my long hair.

So, I opened my topknot and let my long hair loose. With strokes of hand, I made them straight and brushed back.

My hair length is crossing my mid back. All of them appreciated my hair length and quality of hair.

Mother appreciated my vow, not to cut hair and encouraged me.

Since, Japtej Kaur and Satvir Singh have washed their hair, aunty wanted to oil and comb their hair. She asked me to watch their hair oiling

She brought a bottle of Sesame oil. Sesame oil is popular in Punjab for hair oiling.

She began with Japtej Kaur. She poured handful of oil in palm and poured on her scalp. Then she massaged her head by tapping her palm over her head. Again she poured large quantity of oil in palm and started applying on her long hair. Her hair was neatly oiled. Then she brushed her hair backward and started combing neatly. She removed tangles and matted hair and preserved them as Hair is god’s gift for Sikhs so they don't throw it in garbage but in Holy River at their pilgrimage centre.

She started braiding her hair and what a beautiful, shiny tight braid crossing her buttocks. Amazing.

Then she asked her to prepare tea for us and called Satvir Singh.

She asked her to take his hair in front and combed them in reverse direction. She poured lots of hair oil and combed his hair from his neck in front direction. After combing, she started braiding in reversed direction and after his braid was done, she coiled his braid on top of his head.

It was my turn. Mother suggested me to sport hair like Satvir Singh and I also sported oiled braided bun.

We chatted over a cup of tea and then I signed out.

At home, mother smelled my hair and asked me which hair oil you applied, when I replied sesame oil she was not happy at all.

It's clash of culture. In south India its coconut oil preferred whereas in north its sesame oil

Mother asked me to wash it thoroughly so that I can get rid of it.

It's situation like "Two States" movie in our home.

Let's see.

 

 

Reminisces 1 : Childhood Hair Care - Nostalgia

Whenever  I see Sushmita Sen tossing her glorious mane while endorsing a brand of shampoo I am taken back to an era where letting hair  open  was a taboo  and shampoo, a mysterious commodity hardly found in shopping lists of India. It also brought back haunting memories of the travails of my thick long black hair which while evoking envious glances from people around while also hiding a painful story of grooming it.

My long hair had an ambitious guardian in my grandmother. The daily ritual started in the morning with my grandmother applying liberal amount of coconut oil followed by combing the hair with a wide teeth comb and then again with a fine teeth comb to remove nits or lice. Then a center parting was taken and two tight straight plaits were made which ended with black ribbons knotted tightly.The same ritual was repeated without fail in the evening after my return from school. Even a slight movement of my head during this ritual would get me a tight slap on my back.

She used to make a concoction of oils with hibiscus flowers and mehendi leaves  boiled on slow heat and then cooled and filtered. The strong smell of the oil meant that I received stern warnings from the school to not use such nauseatingly strong smelling hair oils in the future.

Sunday was the day I dreaded the most as it was the day for oil bath. Early morning I would find my grandmother wake me up and apply hot oil with cumin seeds and pepper on my hair.  After this, she would vent her anger on my innocent scalp, with heavy pounding and tapping in the name of massage followed by washing with Shikakai powder soaked in the starch of cooked rice.

The next process was of drying the hair. With no hair dryers at that time, my grandmother would burn charcoal pieces, with sambrani powder sprinkled on them, on a spatula with a bamboo basket  covering it where I had to spread my hair. Once that was done, the hair was combed back into tight plaits.

The customary oil bath was a traumatic experience leaving me with a throbbing headache. Once my hair was infested with lice and nits and when all the efforts of my grandmother failed, she took the extreme step of dousing my hair with a mixture of kerosene and gamaxin powder (both pesticides). While there were instant results for such an extreme step, it left me with an itching scalp with painful boils all over. We had to seek the advice of a doctor and it took some time before the condition of my scalp improved.

Now I look at my dull grey hair, looking forlorn. In these days when a simple hair treatment in a beauty parlour makes one poorer by a few thousands I marvel at my grandmother who gave me all those hair treatments for free!

Dressed like a school girl - Twin braids

Today morning I firstly had clean shave and then I washed hair with shampoo and then conditioned them with apple cider vinegar plus water mixture. Then I rinsed conditioner with water again. I wrapped hair in towel and rolled them in a bun on head for drying.
I asked mother to give me her sari, blouse. Mother suggested me to wear salwar kamij of Uma (my elder sister). I was ok with it for a change.
I wore clothes on my own. For draping saree I need a woman's help for sure right now.
My hair still wrapped in towel. After 20 minutes, I removed towel and dried hair with gentle towel strokes.
Then I called Uma for doing my hair as she promised yesterday.
I picked up coconut oil bottle and wide tooth and fine tooth comb. I sat on floor with my open hair covering my back. My hair with bit damp.
Uma poured oil in a cup and started applying on my scalp. Then she evenly applied on head by making portions and finally over length of hair. She applied extra quantity on hair ends.
First she combed hair with wide tooth comb and after detangling, she started combing with fine tooth comb. She brushed all hair backward.
My hair looking sleek and tightly combed. She asked shall I make a single braid?
I requested her to make school braids. She middle parted hair and made 2 sections. She asked mother to give ribbons as school braids need it.
She completed one braid and made a loop and tied again near head with ribbon. And then she finished second loop of braid.
Then she put little make up on my face with bindi, earrings etc.
Today I was in avatar of a school girl. I had spiritual high.
My feminine side is getting balanced.
I was in meditative state for quite some time.

Oiling and braiding my sisters hair

My mother's well oiled braid looked so beautiful that my elder sister Uma was quite impressed. She was curious and asked mother who did your hair? Mother replied my new daughter "Priya"
Uma was after me to do her hair. She brought hair oil and two combs.
She sat on floor and I sat behind her on chair.
I opened Uma's braid. Her waist length hair cascaded on her back. They needed oiling.
Uma asked me to apply lots of hair oil since she wanted sleek look of her hairstyle.
I mid parted her hair with comb and poured hair oil on her scalp and patted with palm. Then I massaged her head.
I applied oil on back of her head and then coated strands with oil. She was seeing it in mirror held in hand.
When she was satisfied with amount of oil, I started combing her hair with wide tooth comb. I removed damaged hair, matted hair, detangled.
Then I combed with a regular comb. Oil was dripping after every stork of comb. I applied oil again onger scalp.
Once oil soaked, I asked her which hairstyle she wants? She opted for a braided bun.
I made a nice tight braid of her hair and rolled it into a bun. I secured with pins.
My sister was looking very beautiful in sleek hair and braided bun.
Since I am living as a woman, my sister is happy because she has a sister.
She promised me to do my hair tomorrow.
Since it was night, I thought I shall sleep with simple bun or topknot. Braided bun will be uncomfortable.
Uma opened my braided bun and she combed my hair.
I decided to wear topknot. brushed my hair forward and rolled them into bun on top of head.
I was looking forward for my sister to do my hair.

Oiling and braiding mothers hair

Right now I am living as a woman as per advice of my spiritual master. So we are three women in home. 2 real - my mother and elder sister and third myself as temporary status until my feminine side of personality is balanced.

Mother said, since you are also a girl, please do my hair today. My mother has long hair upto waist length which she normally keeps tied in bun or sports a braid.

She applies coconut oil almost everyday. Her age is 52 but still not a single grey hair.

She sat on floor and I sat on a chair behind her. I poured coconut oil on her scalp and patted on her scalp. Then I poured some more oil on my palm and applied on her head. I gave her a good head massage.
After head massage, I applied oil on her strands and then I combed hair with gentle strokes. I removed tangles.
My mothers hair looking sleek and straight.
Then I made 3 portions of her hair and started braiding. I made a tight braid of my mothers hair.
She was very happy to see a well oiled nice tight braid. She complimented me.

I love my mother. Its her care and nourishment that I could grow my hair long although being a man.

I tied a festoon of Jasmine flowers on her braid.
I will update on my experience of living as a woman

Be like a woman for balancing feminine side of personality (yin-yang)

I am a long hair man. I have been growing hair since last 6 years and my hair length around 2 feet which reach my mid back. I have been growing hair for spiritual reason and I have taken a vow not to cut my hair as advised by my spiritual master.
I oil my hair everyday to keep them healthy, neat and tidy.
Normally I wear my hair in topknot like lord Shiva.
Since last few days, feminine side of my personality became prominent. I felt that I am consort of Lord Shiva and I had a desire of being a woman.
I consulted my spiritual master and he recommended me to balance male and female (yin-yang)energies in my personality which is evident after deep meditation for longer duration.
He suggested me to live like a woman for few days, unless my feminine side is balanced and desire is fulfilled.
So the journey towards temporarily becoming a woman started.
I shaved my beard.
I requested my mother to sport my hair like a woman which she happily agreed. I washed my hair and wrapped them in a towel bun on top of my head to dry.
After few minutes, my mother asked me to seat on floor and she sat on a stool with a bottle of Parachute coconut oil.
Mother applied coconut oil elaborately on my scalp and other portions of head. She elaborately applied oil to each hair strand head to end. I was holding a mirror in my hand and I was enjoying sleeking of hair by mother.
Then mother combed my hair with several strokes of comb which evenly spreaded oil. Then she started braiding my hair. She made a nice tight braid of my long oiled hair.
Mother asked me whether I would like to tie a braided bun? which I happily agreed. Mother rolled my hair in a braided bun and secured with pins.
I loved my sleek hair and braided bun so much. I was satisfying feminine side of my personality.
My mother had brought jasmine flowers stringed together (Gajra) and she decorated my braided hair bun by tying Gajra around it.
Then she helped me to wear blouse, sari. I sported bindi, I wore ear rings.
I has spiritual high and I was enjoying my transformation.
Next day, mother oiled hair and made a nice tight braid.
I am enjoying being in this state

Tamil mother, Sikh father - Long hair son becomes classical dancer

Sangeeth sing and his family are living in Delhi as the name indicate he is a sing his fathers name was preetham sing but he is no more he died when he is only 8 his mother seetha is working in a government office she is a Tamil women they are love married when they are studying in same collage Sangeeth is only child in house he is young cute whitish short and slim figure with a big turban on head he lived with his mother grand mother and aunty ,his moms sister is a divosie and she is working in a textiles as an accountant her name is swetha she is young and cute like his mom his grand mother is still cute at the age of 47 she wear beautiful sarees and ornaments and very good in classical music they three lived in a traditional way of Tamils wake up early bath early put tulsi leaf on hairs. wear beautiful sarees when they go out or salvar in day time and nighty in night they three have long beautiful hair too After his fathers death his mom have decided that he should live like a sing as his father was  9/22/09  jaya 
Sangeeth was not good in studies but good in singing and dancing his aunt taught him some steps of classical dance his mother too know some but they tell your face will not show any sought of expressions. though he is living with 3 women's he is very shy in nature and do not talk too much also he don't have company with other boys the only company of him is sneha another Tamil family living in same town she always talk so much about all thing and always play on him she always laughed at him saying boy with big head. His turban is very big that is why….
But when he completes the pedigree education he wants to join b- Ed collage. he got admission in a collage at panipat he stay there and studied when he went to study outside he is completely changed he will not sit in his house he comes very late in night when he is in house and speak little to his relatives they always complain him about his nature and also force him to sit in his house. while he go out he smokes a lot and his mom and aunty always advise him about this bad this habit .
One day when he is coming to delhi from panipat he arrived there in late knight but that day was a strike in delhi so his mom told him that stay in snehas house which is near to railway station.he reached there at 11 30 night on next day sneha wake up early and went to Sangeeths room with a cup of tea she was shocked, he is sleeping in a pyjama only. his turban was tied out and his hair was loose over his back it was below his hips and nice silky and beautiful like a lady when he open his eyes he jumped and tie his hair but she said no she want to see his hair ones more and she called her mom she was also shocked and said it so nice and if sneha have this much hair she should combed it daily and wear beautiful flowers on it he said it is common for sings and I also do my hair secretly I never show my hair to my mom or any one yet ,they never asked me till now to show my hair she said your mom granny and aunt have beautiful hair so this is hereditary  9/22/09  jaya 
When he went home 3 women's are waiting with a smile and asked him to show his hair and said that sneha told them about in phone he don't agreed first but at last he show it seeing this his aunty put a hair clip on his hair and said see mom his hair is longer than we three while they talk grandma took his jasmine flower from her hair and fix it on his hair and said boy if u are a girl I will definitely comp your hair daily and fix jasmine flowers on it . mom asked him that if she give a saree and blouse will he wear ,aunty also told that he look so cute in a saree but he does not agree and escaped from there
In that year he got dismissed from collage for entering collage by drinking liquor but he did not said this in his house and stay in hostel one day his mom got letter from collage and they went there become so angry with him the management said that only way is pay a good amount of fees and a punishment transfer to any where at last I heard that all seats were filled in all collages so I got a special massage from them that there is a vacancy in a women's collage in Delhi there special rule that every women's collage can admit one male student I am in a confusions but mom and aunty was compelling me and they forcefully joined there with out my permission and said that if you want to study you can join there this is a small punishment On the first day when I go to collage there is some senior girls they are the most dangerous they ragged all girls come around me and told me to tied out long hair turban. All are wondered when they saw my long hair. It was long below my hips some ladies come to me and hold my hand in back and 2 ladies come forward and braid my long hair then they fix a bunch of jasmine flowers in it and said this is the way for you to come to collage principal hear this warn that girls but he continued his bad habbits and behave very badly to his family members  9/22/09  jaya 
After some days it was study leave so he go every time outside and do not study any thing one day he become sick and coughing badly seeing this his mom went with him to doctor, the lady doctor asked did u smoke he hesitatingly said yes on that day sneha said to mom that he smokes very badly that day his mom did not allow him to go out on next day he went secretly out side and smoke again on his come back his mom said you should sit in house and take rest for a month so your disease may go and your smoking habit may become less more over you can study your lessons in study leave he said no mom it is so boring to sit between three ladies their murmurings about others, saree styles, tele serials …..I am a boy I am not interested in their topics more over I hate these ladies groups and said I am not going to change my habits and I will go out when ever I like ,try your level best to stop me going out
When he came back 3 women's are discussing about his smoking they told him not to smoke but he did not hear it on that day night he have some breathing problem 3 women's in the house where so worried and called doctor she said them that he have some infection in lungs and want to take rest and do not smoke for a month and she gave a address of de addiction centre for stimulants they gave a pack of medicine to them and told patient should take rest for a month  9/22/09  jaya 
On that night the three ladies discus very seriously about his habbit and misbehaving aunty said that he should get some punishment for insulting ladies. mom also agree but main problem is how to tie him in house for a month minimum .grandma said I have an idea do it and she said to her daughters.when they call him he is in bath room mom said . mom said there is surprise after bath when he came back his mom said give me your dirty dress he handed it and now standing in a towel then aunty came in and give him a knighty 
He said it is a nighty?
Mom; yes it is a nighty Wear this 
He; No way
Mom; Why
He; I want my dress
Mom; this is your dress
He; No I don't like it
Mom; Ok then I will give you some thing else
And she called aunty
She bought a salwar and shall
Aunty; did u like it
He; No
Aunty; Oh no so only option is you should wear saree and blouse 
He; Why
Aunty; You said try your level best to stop me going out and u badly said about our dresses and styles so u should get a small punishment for that you should know the feeling of wearing ladies dress and if u like it fully we four can use same wardrobe and our expanse can brought down 
Mom; you must wear these dresses and if you want to go out then you can go out in this dress
He; Please mom 
Aunty; No boy 
Mom; None of your dress is going to get for a month
Aunty; You can wear any of these dresses or stay there only in a towel
Then they left room .after some times grand mother came in and sat with him
Boy you are the only expectation of our 3 but you don't have any attachment to us and now a days you are walking in a bad ways so we want to control it you know when your father died your mom was mentally upset for 2 or 3 years same case in your aunt when she become divorced I know how much they love you and we three ladies need a man to support us  9/22/09  jaya 
Hearing this he cried and hugs his grandma and asked what I want to do.
She smilingly show all type of dresses said wear this
He tearfully said I love you grandma and I love you 3 too and obey what ever you want and any dress you said
Hearing this grandma hug me and said I like you my son I really dreamed about a grand daughter but god would not give me one so you should allow me to see a daughter in you and take a blue cotton saree blouse bra petticoat panty and said this is dress you want to wear
He was surprised but he allowed
She handed him the matching blouse. When she pulled it up and clasped the hooks at the front, it fitted him so perfectly that no one would have believed that it was not stitched for him. It covered shapely breasts, standing out proudly she said to me that this is his aunt's .granny said when we have planed this all of us said that her blouse should fit for me now wear this petticoat She was holding a light blue colored petticoat made out of linen. Her petticoat covered his lover pats and legs. Then she picked up the six-meter long sari and laughed at started tying it around me. Granny is an expert on wearing saree he stand there calmly she said I will show how my grandson look beautiful in saree
Then she gave her long chain and 6 bangles 3 each in one hand her angle belt for him to wear ,and when she fixed these items on him and she gave her ear jumka to him and fixed on his ears she then applied make up on his face lined his eyes bindi light lipstick on him and said boy I have one wish too 
He asked what 
She said take your turban 
He do what she said and she braid his long beautiful hair below his hips she then fixed the jasmine flowers which is in her hair
When he looked to mirror he was stunned and his grandma too…. she cried with joy and surprise and said to there daughters stay in front of door a nice seen for you and ................ 
when door opened both of them sat on sofa with surprise both of them came near me and said from today you are our daughter not son mom said that he looks more beautiful if he have a nose stud 
Grandma said we can put hole on his nose tomorrow itself
Aunty said if he is our daughter there is so many boys roam near our house and a plenty of love letters must be there on our letter box hearing this all of us laughed 
Grandma said after you recover from desease you should continue your classical dance class
On next day aunty brought 3 knighies 3 petticoat and 4 brassieres 
Mom brought one golden chain some bangles ear jumka sticker nose stud payals 
On that study leave every day he wear sarees or salwars in day time and nighty in night .he learn very much his subjects and passed the exams in flying colors his smoking hobby is gone 
After that he spends all time in house practice dance moments with his aunty now his feminity is increased. Then aunt, mom and granny sent him Hyderabad for degree course in kuchipudi dance. Now he is the leading female role player in kuchipudi dramas in south India. he can not do male roles because of his nice sweet long hair which is below his hips.
He helps them in cooking and cleaning and washing and likes to wear nighty all the time when he is ni house with out his turban. And we four become good company grandma every day comb his hairs and arrange jasmine flowers on it and our house become like a ladies hostel

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Hair Oiling of a girl from Kerala - My friend Kavya Nair

I daily oils my hair with coconut oil. As an Keralite , we go to bath after applying oil to hair and we don't wash off the oil from the hair completely.

This gives the advantage of non sticky hair. Also I apply oil to scalp in large quantity than the remaining sides of the hair. Applying to scalp spreads to each corner. I dont let go one day without oiling my hair. Sometimes on Sunday I fully wash my hair without remaining oil contents, but the other day I applies in large quantity and that too I don't use shampoo or soap but just pour warm water to avoid from removing oil contents from my hair.

Again the next day till Sunday I only applies to scalp and rubs gently. We should keep in mind that if don't want to oil in each corner of the scalp then just oil heavily to the upper part of the heads scalp, this will spread the oil contents to each and every corner.

I have a very long hair as most of the keralites have and oiling the hair daily is in the Malayalam tradition and I follow to great extent.This has resulted to long thick hair. Please try the above and post your comments

Painful lice combing schedule for a man

I am a 28 years old male living in vikhroli mumbai. I live alone here since last 4 years and my family is in my native.i keep long hairs upto my waist and normally tie it in a pony or a plait or some time in a bun. 

Since last 1 month i have been suffering with lice infection in my hair. As a stay alone i have no one to take care of it . So i discussed this with my neighbour's daughter who is very close to me. She initially laughed at me, but then told me she will come next day afternoon. I wondered what she was going to do. Next day she came in the afternoon and showed me the lice comb she had bought for me. She asked me to bring coconut oil bottle and sit facing my back to her. 

She Opened my plait and started searching for nits in hair by moving her fingers in my hair. After some time she oiled my hair heavily and started combing my hairs with lice come. She found many and handed over to me for killing. This continued for about 1 hour until no more lice were found in lice comb. Then she tied my hair in bun and asked me to clean my clothes and keep the comb. 

She told she will repeat this after 2 or 3 days so as to get rid of lice. I thanked her. I immediately felt a huge relief by itching scalp. after another 2 sessions i got much relief. Atlast i thought i was free from lice. 

But again yesterday night i felt lot of itching and so went to her home to ask for lice combing. Her mother (my neighbouring aunt) opened the door and told me she had gone to some relatives place for 2 days. She also told me that her daughter had discussed my lice issue to her and she can do tomorrow morning for me if i don't mind. I smiled and she asked me to bring my lice comb and come to her house. 

Today even being sunday i woke early and had bath took the lice comb and went to her place,. She also followed the same routine as her daughter did but oiled my hair more heavily. Just finished 2 hour of lice combing from her. She had asked me not to wash my hair and come in afternoon when she and her 2 maids will make me sit in our common balcony or terrace and do harsh and painful lice combing. Also asked me to buy 3 lice comb and bottle of castor oil which she will mix with coconut oil and apply in my hair before lice combing, just purchased lice combs and castor oil. 

Story of Rohit who has grown hair upto knees and sports a braid

My Long Hair Story! Hi Friends! My name is Rohit and I have very long hair.

18th Jan 2009 I started growing my hair because of my mom and sister. After some months, my hair reach until my shoulder. My schoolteacher say that your hair have grown long so you have to put two ponytails or wear a white hairband like girls. 

Next day I wear white hairband I some time wear 2 ponytail also. Many teachers thought that I am a girl and they call me Miss. 

13th Jun 2010 my hair was until waist length teacher say stop putting hair band or two ponytail. Now onwards you will wear two braid (plait) ponytial.my class girl says he will look like a girl mam.teacher say so what he have long hair like you only.my sister braid my hair. 

She does my hair so girly that I would look like a girl. When I come to school next day my class girl, say Wow! He is looking so beautiful .teacher say good you have done your hair. 

Then after 2 years 28 September 2013 my was until my hip (butt).I was going to school by wearing two braid ponytail only. On that day, my mom bought a pink girl dress and my mom and sister force me to wear it. after wearing sister arrange my hair as a girl and mom put makeup on me.after that says you look so beautiful as a girl I think I have two daughters. 

On march 5 2013 my hair was knee length hair as you see in my profile pic that’s me only that photo was taken by seal my best friend mansion in my 3rd story. I

N ADDITION, today April 5 2013 my hair is tied up in a one Indian braid I was playing with my hair and writing this experience. I LOVE MY LONG HAIR!

Experience 02) Observing a women while oiling her hair

This is one of my another experience which I got when I was at restaurant and bar which was most glass.

I found on the opposite side of the road a small house where I saw a lady which having nice long upto her ass and she comes out for dressing her hair. She opened her braid and oiled it nicely and made a bun for the oil to spread nicely in the hair.

Then after some time she started to comb her hair (after combing her bun). As she was combing her hair it was looking nice and her hair was very thick as she combed the oily hair was looking nice and she combing tightly.

Her full back without part was looking was great. Then draped her on one side and combed it and then made a small ball and combed the bottom of her hair.

Then suddenly her kid cam out and started playing on the road. She ran behind him and her hair was dancing and looking nice.

Then she draped on the other side and combed it nicely. She applied some in the bottom half of her hair some what and again combed with a centre apart. Then she pulled her back and made a nice tightly combed braid. After that rolled it into a nice bun.