Monday, 10 October 2016

Story of Rohit who has grown hair upto knees and sports a braid

My Long Hair Story! Hi Friends! My name is Rohit and I have very long hair.

18th Jan 2009 I started growing my hair because of my mom and sister. After some months, my hair reach until my shoulder. My schoolteacher say that your hair have grown long so you have to put two ponytails or wear a white hairband like girls. 

Next day I wear white hairband I some time wear 2 ponytail also. Many teachers thought that I am a girl and they call me Miss. 

13th Jun 2010 my hair was until waist length teacher say stop putting hair band or two ponytail. Now onwards you will wear two braid (plait) ponytial.my class girl says he will look like a girl mam.teacher say so what he have long hair like you only.my sister braid my hair. 

She does my hair so girly that I would look like a girl. When I come to school next day my class girl, say Wow! He is looking so beautiful .teacher say good you have done your hair. 

Then after 2 years 28 September 2013 my was until my hip (butt).I was going to school by wearing two braid ponytail only. On that day, my mom bought a pink girl dress and my mom and sister force me to wear it. after wearing sister arrange my hair as a girl and mom put makeup on me.after that says you look so beautiful as a girl I think I have two daughters. 

On march 5 2013 my hair was knee length hair as you see in my profile pic that’s me only that photo was taken by seal my best friend mansion in my 3rd story. I

N ADDITION, today April 5 2013 my hair is tied up in a one Indian braid I was playing with my hair and writing this experience. I LOVE MY LONG HAIR!


Tuesday, 4 October 2016

Experience 02) Observing a women while oiling her hair

This is one of my another experience which I got when I was at restaurant and bar which was most glass.

I found on the opposite side of the road a small house where I saw a lady which having nice long upto her ass and she comes out for dressing her hair. She opened her braid and oiled it nicely and made a bun for the oil to spread nicely in the hair.

Then after some time she started to comb her hair (after combing her bun). As she was combing her hair it was looking nice and her hair was very thick as she combed the oily hair was looking nice and she combing tightly.

Her full back without part was looking was great. Then draped her on one side and combed it and then made a small ball and combed the bottom of her hair.

Then suddenly her kid cam out and started playing on the road. She ran behind him and her hair was dancing and looking nice.

Then she draped on the other side and combed it nicely. She applied some in the bottom half of her hair some what and again combed with a centre apart. Then she pulled her back and made a nice tightly combed braid. After that rolled it into a nice bun.


Experience 01) Observing a women while oiling her hair

This is one of my experiences which I got when I was at my friend’s place on a weekend. He wanted to go out and I stayed at his place for sometime.

To my surprise I found at a distance, couple of buildings away, one lady in her mid 40’s came out in gallery and opened her half oiled hair which were in a bun. She gently oiled her hair for sometime with Parachute coconut oil, which I could make out from blue color bottle.

Her hair were just below shoulders and was dense black. After oiling her for some time she started combing her with her black comb. All this I was watching from my friends house and she was not aware of it.

As she was combing she oiled her hair. It was like she was dipping her hair in oil. Then suddenly she went inside and bought a napkin for cleaning her comb as her hair was loaded with oil. She comb her hair full back, then went slow again cleaned the comb.

Then came the best part she made a centre part with the comb and with her beautiful hands with that centre part she made two portions exact similar and bought her in front. Mind you she was looking terrific. She then started talking to some one and as the wind kissed her hair it was mildly waving her combed and dense hair. Made it look very amazing.

Then again she started combing her hair removed all the tangles and then did some hand combing and felt her hair. By now her hair was shining and look gorgeous.

Then pulled her hair back and made a full back comb and then combed her hair for a while and made a nice single tightly combed braid looking truly amazing.



Indian long hair man writes to a long hair Chinese girl Song Yanhua

Dear Song Yanhua,

Thanks for responding to my e-mail. I am eager to see your pictures in bun soon. Once you post it, please inform us.


Well about hair tradition in India, India is a country with rich culture and heritage. In fact, Indian civilization is one of the oldest civilization like China, Egypt and Babylon. In our great epics, like Ramayana, Mahabharata find elaborate notes on woman's hairdressings, hair ornaments, hairstyles and hair growing medicines.

All the female characters have thick, long beautiful hair, which they either braid or wear in bun on the top of their head like crown or in bun. They used to decorate it with flowers and ornaments.

If you surf it on net you will get lots of stuff on this subject.

In India men also used to keep long hair. This was in respect to one Indian god "Shiva". He has very long matted hair. He wears his hair in a large coiled bun on the top of his head. If you search "SHIVA+India" in Google you'll see several images.

Our god’s have long hair wore in this fashion. It resembles "Buddha" which is prayed in your country too.

So do the Indian men, they used to wear their long hair in the same style i.e. hair coiled in bun on the top of the head and some still wear hair like that. I am one of them. I wear a topknot.

Well, I have read few articles on yoga and meditation. The tradition in men goes like this about this hairstyle, In India, our culture is based on sacrifice and highest attainment is "SALVATION". Salvation can be achieved through meditation (chanting god's name) Bun (Topknot) on the head serves like an antenna and helps to concentrate in meditation. If you see Buddha statues, you will agree with me.

However, men look appealing with flowing long hair, like our Indian god statues.

Now a day, no Indian man sports long hair except few passionate men, monks and Sikh community. Hair are short and neatly cut. 

Sikh community: In this community, cutting hair is a sin. Sikh men and women do not cut their hair for the lifetime. This community is all over the world. Sikh men can be identified by their turbans and long beard. Sikh are all over the world. This community is from the state of Punjab in India. It's a warrior community. They keep hair and wear it like monk as they feel that it is confluence of a monk and warrior. 

I have seen Sikh children with long hair like you, Song. They all the time wear it in a very tight bun on the top of their head. It resembles a monk/ Shiva /Buddha image. (Can you imagine not cutting hair for the lifetime; see their commitment towards the religion) 

Some of my Sikh friends have hair reaching their knees and they spend around half an hour a day for braiding it, Bunning it, wearing turban. They even do not cut facial hair(do not shave for lifetime) so they have to neatly keep their beards. 

Mothers must be having tough time combing long hair of their children then braiding it then bunning it EVERY DAY !!!!!! Sikh females wear their hair in braids or bun but not like men (On the top of their head) but like normal woman. But since they do not cut for the lifetime, their hair are very long. Some woman wear it like Sikh men in bun on the top of the head. (Very few) These people are just like us in professional life, schools & colleges except turban on their head. Long hair is a subject of pride for Sikh men and woman. Interesting indeed.

Regarding Indian woman, in cities like Mumbai (Bombay), Delhi most of the woman are working so they have short hair which they can manage very fast. In big cities, we have modern salons, where you can get any hair cut under the sun.In any colour. Still some woman keep long hair. 

In fact I strongly feel woman look most beautiful in long hair. 

In India applying hair oil regular practise Normally all woman apply oil while combing. It helps them to remove hair tangles easily. Woman normally use coconut oil or mustard oil for the same. But in Indian villages and small towns you will find most of the women sporting long hair oiled and neatly combed into a single braid or a large bun on the back of the head. If I am not exaggerating, Long hair oiled and combed neatly into a braid or a tight bun could be National hair style of India. 

Hair oil keeps hair in proper shape so in most of the schools in India,applying oil to hair is compulsory for girls and boys and their hair have to be neatly combed into braid(for girls) and short hair for boys. It is a part of discipline. Traditionally mother combs daughters hair like your mother. Grown up girl does it on her own. 

Few men also aspire to grow hair but normally if they are into modelling/ rock group. But still in India if they see a guy like this with long hair or a ponytail or hair wore in bun, he is not considered as a part of mainstream he is considered to be a rebel. 

But all of our gods, goddesses are with long hair and still 80% woman in India sport long hair. 

Now I will tell you totally opposite story. In India we have richest temple in the world. It is called "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" it is situated in Southern India. Its a strong belief of Indians, that whatever you pray for, "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" fulfills it. Every day minimum 1,00,000 pilgrims visit this place. During festivals, it is up to 5,00,000 pilgrims a day. People vow to god. After fulfilment of their vow, they offer hair to god "TIRUPATI-BALAJI" MEN & WOMAN TONSH THEIR HEAD, THEY OFFER HAIR TO GOD. BELIEVE ME WOMAN OFFER THEIR LONG HAIR AND BECOME BALD; AFTER FULFILMENT OF THEIR WISH. 

IT'S AWFUL SEEING A BARBER WITH A BLADE/RAZOR SHAVING A WOMAN'S HEAD AND HER LONG HAIR FALLING OFF HER HEAD. EVERY DAY MANY WOMAN OFFER THEIR LONG FLOWING HAIR LIKE THAT. THAT'S AMAZING INDIA. WHERE YOU FIND VARIETY OF CULTURES AND TRADITIONS. 

I hope Song, you are not tired and bored after reading my long E-MAIL. Hope you enjoyed reading it. Do reply again. Warm wishes,



Sikh Girl - Hair care ritual - Oiling, combing, making bun

Hi, my name is Anita Kaur. I am a Sikh girl from India. I sport very long hair because I have not cut my hair since my birth. Now I am 24 years old and my hair touch my knees. I belong to Sikh religion in which both men & woman do not cut their hair throughout the lifetime. It’s very difficult but (definitely for men) but we are proud of it.

I always wear my hair in bun on top of my head. Not for the style but my religion recommends. I wash my hair twice a week and after drying, I apply lots of hair oil. I have thick hair and these heavy mass needs hair oil for neatly combing and removing tangles and managing properly.

Hair oil gives it shiny and wet look. It also conditions hair. Normally I wear bun on top of my head like a monk (good example could be hairstyle wore by “Buddha" or any Hindu God). I also wear a turban or scarf.

Sometimes I wear a single braid of well oiled hair. It looks like a Nagin (female naga - snake)

After applying oil and combing, I braid them in opposite direction i.e. my braid starts from my forehead. After braiding, I make a braided bun on top of my head, near forehead. I wrap a scarf around it.

Generally my mother helps me out. And I help my brother who also has hair reaching his thighs. We spend @20 minutes everyday in hair care as we are work. I work in a bank and my brother works in a software company.

Due to regular care my hair are healthy, shiny. I would certainly marry a Sikh guy with long hair as I am passionate about it and I would help him in maintaining long hair as per our religion

Happy hair growing and caring



I am Tamil but sport hair like Sikh boy

Hi! I am Priyamvad again posting about hair oiling and making hair bun.

Today I washed hair with shampoo and then wrapped in towel turban on top of head for 20 minutes. After 20 minutes hair were moist and requested my mother to comb my hair. 

Mother grabbed bottle of Parachute coconut hair oil and sat on a chair. She asked me to sit on the floor. She started applying oil on my head elaborately and later applied to hair and ends. She massaged for 5 to 7 minutes and spreaded oil evenly to all portion of hair.
Then she combed hair neatly.


I requested her to tie hair in bun on top of head as she like my hair worn like that.


She asked me to stand up and bow down. My hair were hanging on my face. She started combing starting from neck. After neatly combing, she grabbed hair and twisted them and made a hair bun on top of head closer to forehead.
Today she didn't make braided bun.


I was looking like a monk. Then I wrapped a cotton cloth around my head like a Sikh boy. Although I am Tamil, I looked Sikh. 

However, I don't have beard as I regularly shave so it was like a Sikh boy without beard.

Saturday, 27 August 2016

Boy's wish to grow hair long

Before going to this story ...let me introduce myself , I’m Aman 16 yrs old school going boy . my mom is a teacher and my father is a business man . my mom always tease me ...like ,don’t shave your mustache you are looking like a girl ..I simply says it a new style and I vl go .people shave mustache but they will have beard . But I’m a small boy I can have only mustache at my age. why my mom say like this bcz I have small chest like girls before attaining puberty and my skin is so fair and my hair is also silky like Chinese boys .
One day he saw a man with some medium length long hair men looking trendy ..so aman also wants to be like that ...he went to his mom asked I would like to grow my hair little longer and his mother said you are a school going boy .you should not grow hair, teachers will scold me . I won’t accept .By looking at you other will get spoiled . I forgot that my my is also a teacher ..I didn’t take it as serious after some day my mom asked me cut my hair .I refused ,she scolded me very angrily. I left home and went to my aunty's home which s in next street . He explained everything to his aunty abt the hair style . My aunty also said the same thing ....I was sitting lonely. her daughter came ,she s also going girl but one yr senior .she said I heard what you said . it is a new trend ,ya I accept but every one should like that .then he said OK...and left Aunty’s home
Has he was returning to his home he met with an accident .his leg was injured and doctor asked him to take rest for 2—3 months .and adviced him not walk also ..otherwise you may not able to walk life long and left . Days passed by my mustache grows very very slowly .but my hair grows little faster .some how I don’t no my hair was below the neck .I was so surprised to see my hair .my mom also liked it. has she was with me the hospital for 2 months ..she didnt have taken proper food .so my aunty said to my mom to go home and take rest . I will send my daughter to look after him .she entered the room and she was also surprised by seeing my hair
Doctor said let him take bath . though he had little pain I help him to take bath . After taking bath ..he was tired and slept .his hair was still wet so tied a bun with towel so it will dry .After that she combed my hair tied a simple knot and was hanging freely.
My mom came and said you looking beautiful, I got shy. Docter said now he can walk . Then my mom said we can go temple for Aman’s recovery, myself and mom then my aunty and her daughter .every one was ready but I was not. So my om asked meera check wat Aman is doing .I went inside ,he was struggling with his hair .meera said you don’t no how to handle your hair but you want trendy hairstyle. Then she combed his hair put a high bun men’s hairstyle .
He came out his mom said ya its good meera on seeing Aman hair . outside heavy wind blowing. I hair was flying something .this time I don’t no wat to do..with my hair .suddenly my my mom took a pin from her hair and inserted into his hair. It was also not enough so meera took still more pins and clip ,inserted into his hair.he was not aware how he look but now he his comfortable with his hair .,now he realised it is very difficult to maintain long hair .he said to himself its OK mom and meera is there why to worry and We went temple and had Pooja. After that we came out and stepped into car ...but I forgot my slippers .I went back there i was searching for it .At thet time a lady ,jasmine garland seller asked to buy jasmine garland but she did not see my front
.after that I turned back .she said sorry sir again and again ..I laughed and said its .but requested him to buy garland to his mom and relatives .I don’t no how much to buy ..I bought a bunch of jasmine garlands but I didn’t find my slippers and went back to the car ...meera asked me wat is this ..I refused to say and said nothing and gave garlands .finally they reached home
A soon as they reached home Aman said bun is little heavy I will be in loose hair. Meera said you cannot always be in loose ...hair your hair will start to fall and you cannot style it. Somehow in few days his hair was little still more longer said meera ...so no loose hair . come here I will show how to maintain .she said I will make a double plait . he refused and said I don’t want ladies kind of hairstyle. meera and his mother said if u don’t you will feel for it latter ...so do wat meera says and finally he accepted it .meera double plaited his hair with oil too make it strong
. Meera forgot about jasmine flowers so meera took it from the car and gave to her mother and aman's mother ,asked meera also to keep some flowers . Still there is a bunch of flowers where 10 more women’s can have.
Aman's mother saw aman with shy face asked him keep remaining bunch ,because he only wanted to grow his longer which tempted his mom to look his son has daughter . Otherwise you must cut your hair . he finally accepted to keep it ..meera took a bunch of fresh garlands and some roses which was already there in the house and pinned it to aman hair in beautiful manner .At that time meera got some affection towards aman. She didn’t mind that he s younger than her. After completing it ...aman felt very bad and shy .
And he ran into the room and locked his room .he started to cry .after some time he stood up and he decided to cut his hair. Suddenly he saw some reflection over the mirror ..he stood in front of the mirror and saw himself ......this is the first time he is seeing his reflection over the mirror. He saw himself surprisingly .and believed that what his mom said was correct ....he is looking like a girl not like a man he wants to be. But he likes the way he looks .He was very happy inside ....but meera felt sorry for him. And he came outside the room meera was standing and said sorry ...he said nothing and smiled.
Meera also understood that he liked the way he looks.so started to chit chat. had fun and fun .mostly of time they spoke about the girls. Meera said tomorrow school. What are going to do and what you will when teacher asks about your hair. Aman said I have a plan I will take mom to school and ask her to say that he should not cut his hair till next year . because I prayed to god that 2yr hair will be given to tripathi temple .so in school also they accepted.
Now aman is going to school with high bun or covered with some clothes like Singh people. But in home every day he return from school meera ...will comb his hair and plait it. And she inserted some pins to hold hair in correct position. This time there was a big surprise ...his mother brought him a new dress .his birthday was on Sunday .....he opened the dress it salwar .he was shocked .he did not wanted to wear this dress . but his mother said now you are a girl ...you have long hair ,small chest like girls ,hairless body and fair skin. Now go and wear this ....you will look good .Meera helped him to wear the dress . he admired himself as girl itself on seeing the mirror. Still something s pending ....today is your birthday day ...you can have loose hair said meera . he was very happy .now everything was over. this time meera mother made some style of jasmine garland ...she said thus will suits you Ammu said meera mother . Meera said you are looking more beautiful than everyone.... Ammu said meera.
Next day in school there was selection going on for drama ...aman also gave his name ...his name was also selected . teacher informed to meera about the role he should act as a seetha....there is no suitable for this role said teacher ...then they said no girls have long hair ...aman have long hair than girls ...he will be correct for this role ....
After that meera said to his mother about the ...role . Aman was very eager to accept this role . he also liked to do tat role.so they went purchasing ..they bought him a beautiful saree ,padded bra, panties, and slippers. Meera asked his mom ....aunty can we buy aman two more dresses which he can wear at home ....and nighties to wear. And at last they purchase was over they stopped at some fashion store ...bought some clips ,pins , hair bands ,bangles, nearby there was beauty parlour ...they took ammu there ....shaped his eye brows and did some facial and removed extra hair over face..now they waxed his whole body ....it was more painful ....this pain will go away said his mom.now she asked beautician to pierce his ear ....he said no ..but his mother said you have too .then painfully he went to his home ....he starred his face at mirror and said himself no one will I’m a boy.he cried in joy .next day drama preparation was going on...his mom also helped him for preparation.. They removed his dress ....mom asked him to wear that padded bra and panties..then petticoat and she drapped him the saree ...now its beautician work ....it was the same lady ..she did light make up with eyelashes ,eyeliner and lipstick . Meera was painting his nails . now hair they added extra hair which was at butt.plaited into single one ...added some fragrance to hair ..this time also aunty bought some different garlands made of jasmine and roses ....kept from top to bottom ..now ammu is lookin a bride ....this a time to show your talent said aunty.
Finally everything was going good ,meera mother gifted ammu with diamond nose ring ....and asked him marry meera ....he said how she will marry me...this is not my request ...it s meera's request . His nose was also pierced .....they completed school ,college and meera is working ,And is staying housewife....they are living a happy life